Basilica Parish of Sacred Hearts of Jesus & Mary 168 Hill Street, Southampton, New York 11968 Pastoral Staff: Rev. Michael A. Vetrano, Pastor [email protected] In Residence: Rev. Msgr. William J. Gill John Moran, Deacon Sr. Mary Assunta Boyle, RSM, Religious Education Suzanne Marchisella, Parish & Cemetery Secretary Mary Ann Tupper, Human Resources Jo Ann Morse, Music Director Jack Hanlon, Liturgy Coordinator Sr. Barbara McKenna, RSM, Bereavement Coordinator Your parish staff welcomes the opportunity to serve you. A priest will always be available for emergency sick calls. Many requests for service and information can be met during the daytime when the office is fully staffed. We suggest making appointments with the priest, deacon or other member of the parish staff since they might be engaged in other pastoral activities.

WE CELEBRATE EUCHARIST Mass Schedule Weekends: First Saturday of the month: 8:15 AM Saturday: 5:00 PM Sunday: 8:00 AM, 9:30 AM, 11:00 AM, 12:30 PM. (Spanish). 5:00 PM. Holydays: Vigil: 7:00 PM. Holyday: 8:15 AM., 12:00 Noon Weekdays: Monday, Wednesday, Thursday & Friday: 12:00 Noon Tuesday 8:15 AM. Please let us know if someone is unable to come to Church because of age or illness. We will be happy to bring Holy Communion to them at home.

Parish Office Telephone: 631-283-0097 Fax: 631-283-3836 E-mail: [email protected] New website: www.shjmbasilica.org Hours: Monday - Friday: 9:00am - 12 Noon; 1:00pm-4:00pm Evenings: By appointment only please Sat. & Sun.: By appointment only please

Devotions: Tuesdays: Our Lady of Perpetual Help Novena. 8:15 AM Mass

Religious Education Office: 283-0508 e-mail: [email protected] Human Resources Office: 283-6415 e-mail:[email protected] Spanish Apostolate: 283-4379 Vincentian Fathers: 287-9647 Our Lady of the Hamptons School: 283-9140 Convent: 283-9110 Sr. Kathryn Schlueter, CSJ, Principal

Human Resources of the Hamptons The Human Resources Program volunteers reach out to meet the temporal needs of the elderly, the housebound and the poor of our parish and community, Our parish Care for the Caregiver Program delivers hot meals to families in need of this kind of help on Wednesday evenings. Call the Human Resources Office (2836415) for more information and assistance. Birthright: Birthright maintains an office at 99 W Montauk Highway. Hampton Bays. Project Rachel offers confidential and compassionate counseling to anyone suffering guilt after an abortion. Please call Birthright at 728-8900 for information.

RELIGIOUS EDUCATION: Our Parish Religious Education Program and Our Lady of the Hamptons Regional School strive to sup port and complement the responsibility of parents to be the primary teachers of the children they have co-created with God. Our Religious Education Program, which includes preparation for First Penance. First Eucharist and Confirmation, is a family centered, continual formation extending from Grade 1 through Grade 8. Our Ministry to high school PENANCE: Confessions are heard on Saturdays from 4:00 - 4:45 PM. A more students continues this formation for grades 9 through 12. convenient time may be arranged with the parish priest by calling the Parish Center. PARISH REGISTRATION BAPTISM: Baptisms are customarily performed on Sunday at 2:30 P.M. Prior arrangements with the parish priest or deacon must be made as far in advance as possible. The Godfather and Godmother should be practicing Catholics. Our Baptismal Program meets at 7:30 P.M. on the second Monday of each month in the Parish Center.

We ask that all Catholics living within the boundaries of Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary Parish fill out a registration (census) MARRIAGE: In order to prepare adequately for the life-long commitment to the form. This helps us identify and provide for the needs of our Sacrament and to arrange to participate in a Marriage Preparation parishioners. If you are new to the parish or if you are moving, Program, we ask that you make arrangements with the priest or please call the Parish Office. deacon of your choice at least six months prior to the date of the marriage. Because of the Sunday Mass schedule, Nuptial Masses are normally celebrated on Friday evening or Saturday. Weddings should take place in the proper parish of the bride or groom.

BASILICA PARISH OF SACRED HEARTS OF JESUS & MARY Twenty-ninth Sunday in Ordinary Time October 21, 2012 Readings: Is 53:10-11; Heb 4:14-16; Mk 10:35-45 Mission Statement: We are a Eucharistic centered people, who by following Christ’s teaching, together to love and serve those in spiritual and physical need in our community.

Masses for the Week of Oct 22-28 Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday Sunday

12:00 8:15 12:00 12:00 12:00 5 PM 8:00 9:30 11:00

12:30 5 PM

Robert Stephens Irene Duignan Keith Greene Alberta Armienti Judy Lavinio James Aery Sr. Rose Taranto People of the Parish Roderick, Patrick & Susie Minogue Jack Cawley, Erlinda Misajon, Getulio & Agapita Monteliza Spanish Mass James LaVolpe

SOUTHAMPTON HOSPITAL– Oct 21—C & J Mottern October 28—D. Podlaski HAMPTON CENTER– Oct 21—N. Conroy, A. Beatty October 28—C & J Mottern Rosary— October 25—S. Raynor ALTARS - October—M. Lynch, C. Rotunno ALTAR LINENS: G. Bauer HAND LINENS - Oct 15-28—G. Arresta

“Jesus waits for us in this sacrament of love.” Pope John Paul II Please join us in an hour of

MINISTERS SCHEDULE Saturday, Oct 27 5 PM Father Dahm SERVERS Anyone available E.M.’S J. Costa, M. King, P. Madison LECTOR H. Reister Sunday, Oct 28 8 AM Father Kiernan SERVERS Ambrose Bros., I & L Martin E.M.’S M. Adamczyk, D. Dwyer, C & J Mottern M. Steinbrecher LECTOR P. Bogan GREETERS I. Hurley, K. Moffa, M. Steinbrecher SERVERS E.M.’S LECTOR GREETER

9:30 AM Father Vetrano A. Cuccia, F. & R. Kelly, M. O’Connor, M. Wilson J. Cuccia, N. McCulley, M. McDonald, C & J Wilson A. Cuccia A. Lesta, J & N McCulley

LECTOR GREETERS

11 AM Father Vetrano May Bros. A. O’Brien, O. Valle S. Adelante, G. Bauer, V. Grattan, S. McCulley, J. Neknez M. Hajosy C. Brown, C. Butler, R. Essay

SERVERS E.M.’S LECTOR

5 PM Msgr. Gill C. Caulfield, M. Terry N. Conroy, S. Oldakowski, K. Rossi G. Reisig

SERVERS E.M.’S

Eucharistic Adoration Each Friday directly following the noon Mass 12:30-1:30 PM “Come to Me all of you who are weary and find life burdensome and I will refresh you…” “Cast all your anxieties upon the One who cares for you…” “My peace is my gift to you…” (Mt 11:28; 5:7, Jn 14:17)

SACRIFICIAL GIVING The October 14th collection was $7827.00. The 2012 Catholic Ministries Appeal total so far $43,391 in gifts and pledges, 83% of our goal. May God bless you for your continued support and generosity. Anyone who would like to donate Altar Candles, Wine or Altar Bread in memory of a loved one or for a special intention please call the Parish Office—283-0097 Ext. 0.

Pastor’s Column October 20/21

Dear Parish Family, As a hospital chaplain, most of my visits were to patients and their families during their hospital stays. Occasionally I was called upon to counsel patients who were seen by our doctors in the hospital clinics. That is how I met a woman I will call Jean. Jean had just received the bad news that her unborn child had a deformity and would almost certainly be born with severe mental retardation. Her doctors advised that she considered termination because they thought the child's problems would cause a lifetime of suffering. When Jean told them that she was Catholic and was always against abortion, they advised her to talk her decision over with a chaplain. Jean was engaged at the time and she had two children from a previous marriage. She did not have an easy life but was trying very hard to get her life together and had high hopes for the future. When her fiancé heard the doctors report, he announced that he would have no part of this and their plans were off. Things had gone from bad to worse. As she told her tale, I wondered what I could say to give her some hope and courage. I never got the chance. As she finished her story, she took a deep breath and spoke words I remember to this day. She said. “I absolutely have to have this child. I have made a lot of mistakes in my life but if I look for an escape from my problems now, I will be an awful example to my children. Things are bad, but if I don’t stick to what I know to be right, they are not going to get any better.” I wish I could tell you that her one courageous decision made everything OK. Life is rarely that simple. Her little boy was beautiful but his mental and medical problems were enormous. Medical problems led to financial problems and day to day challenges were overwhelming. Jean could never quite seem to get ahead of it all. Was there a bright spot? Yes. She reached out to her parish community and I was so proud of the way that they responded to her. People gave her time. They gave her practical help with everyday problems of child care and homemaking. They helped her fight her many battles. They were there for her and she was not alone. It’s good to stand up for life and to be part of a community that reaches out to those who are trying to do what is right. Sincerely yours in Christ,

Fr. Mike Vetrano

New Ministries For Sacred Hearts One of the most important ministries of a pastor is to invite people to discover and use their gifts. Here are three ministries I would like to begin and a beginning description of what they do and what gifts they require. If you are interested please drop Fr. Mike a note:

A Ministry of Consolation One of the most profound spiritual moments in peoples’ lives is celebrating the loss of a loved one. A ministry of consolation would:   

Help people plan the funeral Mass Be present to welcome family and friends at Mass Help as Eucharistic ministers and lectors at funerals

Wedding Ministry The celebration of weddings is a very important ministry here. The beauty of the church attracts many who wish to celebrate the beginning of their married lives. A wedding ministry would:    

Help with rehearsals and planning Welcome couples and families on the day of wedding Prepare our church for the celebrations Help with Eucharistic ministry at nuptial Masses

MAIN ALTAR FLOWERS for this week were given in loving memory of Elsie & James McCulley & Adam & Ann Rosko by Mr. & Mrs. Constantine Rosko. BLESSED MOTHER’ S & ST. JOSEPH’S ALTAR FLOWERS were given on the occasion of Peter Bernagozzi & Kendra Lach’s wedding in loving memory of their grandparents and Fred Bernagozzi. Anyone who would like to donate altar flowers in memory of a loved one or for a special intention please call the Parish Office at 283-0097. Ext. 0

WELCOME:

Zachary William Stubelek

PARISH PROGRAMS FRANCISCANS

The Secular Franciscans meet on the third Sunday of the month, after the 11 AM mass in the Parish Center. Would you like to know what we are all about? Please come to our meeting. Bring a bag lunch and we will supply the coffee. BIBLE STUDY Bible Study Group meets on Tuesdays at 1 PM in the upper meeting room of the Parish Center. All are welcome! SPIRITUAL BOOK GROUP The Spiritual Book Group has resumed . Meetings are Tuesdays at 1 PM in Room 1 of the Parish Center. New members are always welcome.

PARISH LIFE

The community of Sacred Hearts of Jesus & Mary welcomes the following newly baptized infant with joy:

RELIGIOUS EDUCATION

CLASSES ON OCTOBER 31ST HAVE BEEN CANCELLED! PLEASE MAKE SURE YOU ARE REGISTERED AT SACRED HEARTS OF JESUS AND MARY. REGISTRATION FORMS ARE AVAILABLE BY CALLING THE PARISH OFFICE AT 283-0097.

Parents of children who will be entering first grade in September: If your child is entering the first grade and you want him/her to receive the sacraments in the parish, it is time to register them for the Religious Education Program if they are not attending Our Lady of the Hamptons or some other Catholic School. Religious Education Registration forms are now available on the parish website: www.shjmbasilica.org. Please remember that children are required to attend each year from first to eighth grades, in order to be prepared for the receiving of Confirmation in the eighth grade. Also attendance each week is a must unless the child is sick or has a good reason for missing a class. Please encourage the school and coaches not to schedule games or practices on Wednesday afternoon or evening or Sunday mornings. It is up to all of us to encourage the importance of Religious Education in our community.

the Religious Education office at 631-283-0508.

OUR LADY OF THE HAMPTONS

Miss Erin Boughton and Mr. Christopher Scapellati accompanied their eighth grade students on a tour of lower Manhattan, centered around their research of the Ground Zero project. The students traveled by LIRR and subway and toured the site of the September 11 tragedy, the Tribute center and adjacent landmarks. The construction of the new OLH Wellness Center is progressing, with the gym area scheduled to open in November. An informal open house is planned for the community once the certificate of occupancy is received. The school is reaching out to the community for support and donations in helping to make the completion of the classroom wing a reality. Please contact Sister Kathy at 2839140 to see how you can become involved. The annual Bucks for Books raffle to benefit the school programs at OLH is on now, with the drawing for the $15,000 first prize scheduled for December 17. Tickets can be obtained at the school or by calling 283-9140. We invite parishioners and friends to learn more about Our Lady of the Hamptons by visiting the website www.olh.org.

EDUCATION

Please check the website for meetings and Announcements. For more information please call

Rites of Christian Initiation for Adults Anyone who wishes to become a Catholic or to receive any sacrament that they have not yet received are invited to attend RCIA classes which are held on Thursdays at 7 PM in the Parish Center. Please remember you must be confirmed to be a godparent. Please call Sr. Mary Assunta at 631-283-0508 for more information.

WE PRAY FOR OUR BELOVED SICK

Winnie Chin

John Bishop

Jeff Grattan

Grace McNamara

Robert O’Shea

Gene Travers, Jr.

Gerard Murphy

Suzanne Parillo

Jean Kearns

Gwendolyn Porter

John Cuccia, Sr.

Eileen Finlay

Annie Murphy

Daniel Sheerin

Stan Witkowski

Anne O’Brien

Anna Norsic

TREASURES FROM OUR TRADITION In the eyes of many, the papacy is a peculiar institution. Still bedecked with some of the regalia of medieval princes, contemporary popes have worked to define their role in ways that give them influence over the world both within and outside the Church. The trappings of royalty, never really a good fit for the successors of Peter, could render a pope distant and irrelevant. On the other hand, the tendency of many to think of the pope as if he were the CEO of a modern corporation is also inaccurate. St. Gregory the Great, himself a pope, first called the pope “the servant of the servants of God.” He is “first among equals” among other bishops, who by tradition exercise significant authority within their own dioceses, not depending on the pope’s authority. This arrangement often puzzles those accustomed to a top-to-bottom “chain of command.” History has seen popes of many styles, but most strive to live up to Gregory’s definition. Perhaps today’s Gospel puts it all into the best perspective: “Whoever wishes to be first among you will be the slave of all.” Pray for the pope this week. —James Field, Copyright © J. S. Paluch Co.

Visitors to Sacred Hearts Basilica I am happy to report that visits to our Basilica church are in full swing! We have recently

hosted groups from St. Ignatius Parish in Hicksville and St. John’s parish in Center Moriches. I am thankful to our guides who have done a wonderful job of explaining the history and architecture of our beautiful church. Thanks to Gina Arresta and Marty Rogers for conducting these two tours with more than 100 visitors between them!

Religious Christmas Cards Southampton Council of the Knights of Columbus will begin selling Religious Christmas Cards on Sunday, October 14th in the Church vestibule. These beautiful cards are 20 per box for $10—$16 per box. The cards are manufactured by the Benedictine Monastery in Missouri which is used to prepare young men for the priesthood. The entire profit from this sale will be used to support our Parish.

October is Respect Life Month On October 26th in addition to the hour of Eucharistic Adoration after the 12 Noon Mass, we will pray the Rosary for Respect Life Month. Please join us. Why not visit our Rosary Walk behind the Parish Center? Entrance is in the rear of the Church Parking lot

FAMILY 9:30 MASS CHOIR ALL ARE WELCOME! DO YOU SING? DO YOU PLAY AN INSTRUMENT? WOULD YOU LIKE TO CANTOR? The 9:30 AM Family Mass is looking for new recruits to join us in making music! Please give JoAnn Morse a call if you’re interested. (631) 807-7907.

Join us as we look at the heroic life and death of one of the newest saints of the Catholic Church. Ann Enstine, Presenter Tuesday October 23, 2012 7:00 pm RSVP: 283-0097 Basilica of the Sacred Hearts of Jesus & Mary Parish Center - Chapel Time spent with Edith Stein will offer insights into the life and spirituality of this Jewish woman who became Sister Teresa Benedicta of the Cross. Her journey to Catholicism convinced her that Jesus was the “truth” for which she had searched. Later, she would see her arrest by the Nazis as an opportunity to serve Christ in the least of his brothers and sisters by sacrificing herself for her people. Always a model of hope and humility, showing resilience in the face of difficulty and persecution, she offered herself up to God’s loving will. In Saint Teresa Benedicta of the Cross, we see that trust and hope go hand in hand.

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Ann Enstine – is a parishioner of Sacred Hearts and a member of the Adult Faith Team. Graduate of the Diocesan Pastoral Formation Program, Masters Degree in Theology from the Seminary of the Immaculate Conception.

Human Resources is in need of: WARM BLANKETS AND MEN’S HOODED SWEATSHIRTS Donations can be dropped off at the Parish Center during the week.

Today is World Mission Sunday. The second collection will be taken up in support of Catholic Missions around the world.

Call Mary Ann Tupper (631)283-6415 for more information.

SHOP FAIR TRADE Be the reason for peace and hope in our world

WORLD VILLAGE FAIR TRADE MARKET is a “Gift Shop with a Mission” HUMAN RESOURCES OF THE HAMPTONS Hours: Clothing Room Monday thru Friday 10 AM—2 PM Food Pantry Monday, Wednesday & Friday 10 AM—12 Noon For more information please call 631-283-6415 Website: hrhamptons.org

Knights of Columbus Corner Southampton Council #1967

The Knights of Columbus is the world’s largest lay Catholic, familyservice organization. It was founded in Connecticut in 1882 on four principles: Charity, Unity, Fraternity & Patriotism. Locally, Knights of Columbus Council #1967 serves the parishes of Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary and Our Lady of Poland. The group donates to both churches, the Girl Scouts, Boy Scouts and many other local charities. For more information on the Knights of Columbus and how to join please call 287-3545.

Fair Trade is a movement around the globe that sustains lives by paying FAIR WAGES and supports AIDS orphans in Africa Child and sweatshop labor is ended. People grow in dignity and children attend school COME SHOP FAIR TRADE where your dollars change lives and bring hope. You will find organic coffees, teas, chocolates as well as beautiful handcrafted gifts; jewelry, baskets, scarves, handbags, cards, children’s items and so much more. Located in the Hamlet Green just east of the Hampton Bays Movie Theatre at 101 W. Montauk Highway 631-728-7880 Shop online— www.fairtrademarket.org

REPORTING ALLEGATIONS OF SEXUAL ABUSE 516-594-9063 OFFICE FOR THE PROTECTION OF CHILDREN AND YOUNG PEOPLE 516-678-5800 EXT 573

KID’S PAGE October 21, 2012 Jesus taught about the Kingdom of Heaven Jesus teaches in Parables The kingdom of Heaven is like a net full of fish. Match the fish

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XXIX Domingo del Tiempo Ordinario, Año B. Ilustración, © 1997 S. Erspamer. Printed from www.Liturgy.com

Respeto - “El que quiera ser grande entre ustedes, que se haga su servidor”. Para los cristianos, dirigir es ponerse al servicio de los demás, tarea difícil y compleja. Es muy fácil —pero no es cristiano— exigir respeto para ejercer poder sobre los demás. Jesús, el Mesías, es el siervo fiel que da su vida por los demás para rescatarlos. Y así, Jesús lavó los pies de sus discípulos. Jesús conoce y siente nuestra debilidad por su propia experiencia. De allí que podamos confiar en que nos dará la ayuda que necesitamos. Texto: Philip J. Sandstrom, STD © 1997, OCP. Derechos

Confirmación, Comunión o Bautismo para Adultos - Las clases para adultos que no han recibido los sacramentos de Confirmación, Comunión o aún Bautismo son los martes, a las 7:00 PM en la escuelita detrás de la iglesia en East Hampton o los miércoles, a las 7:00 PM en al Apostolado Hispano en Southampton. Vengan esta semana para inscribirse y asistir a la clase. Las clases son para jóvenes y adultos de 17 o más años. Retiro para Hombres - Habrá un retiro para hombres en Greenport el 26-28 de octubre. Para más información o para inscribirse hable con Padre Hugo 516-864-7244. Retiro para Parejas - El grupo Rema les invita a todas las parejas a un retiro de un día el sábado, 3 de noviembre de 8:30 AM a 4:00 PM en el salón grande de la Iglesia Santísima Trinidad en East Hampton, con el tema: Las cuatro estaciones en el Matrimonio.. Congreso de la Mujer Latina - El Segundo Congreso de la Mujer Latina del East End será el sábado, 10 de noviembre en el salón comunitario de Hampton Bays. Retiro para Familias - El Movimiento Familiar Cristiano Católico les invita a un retiro espiritual para familias el sábado, 17 de noviembre de las 9:00 a 3:00 en el salón parroquial de East Hampton. Rincón de Información

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El Compromiso de Servir - ¿Cómo nos podemos identificar con los que sufren en el mundo? Hoy, la sagrada Escritura nos dice cómo: identificándonos con Jesús, el Siervo que sufre, acercándonos a su trono de gloria. Nos identificamos con los pobres del mundo cuando, en términos teológicos, aceptamos morir y resucitar con Jesucristo cada día. Los hijos de Zebedeo, quienes aparecen en el Evangelio de hoy, no lo entendieron así. Pensaron que era mejor sentarse a la derecha o a la izquierda del Maestro—como si fuese un político de la época—para experimentar Su gloria. Solamente en el servicio al prójimo descubrimos nuestra gloria en Jesús. Éste es un buen domingo para [reflexionar sobre]… la relación íntima que existe entre su oración litúrgica en el templo y su compromiso de servicio en la sociedad, fuera del templo. By Juan J. Sosa, Pbro., from Liturgia y Canción 2012 © 2011, OCP. All rights reserved

El Reto de Servir - El Evangelio de hoy presenta a todos los ministros de la Iglesia, ordenados o laicos, una oportunidad para reflexionar. A veces caemos en la trampa de querer brillar más que los demás; esperamos que alguien se fije en nosotros por nuestra habilidad o disponibilidad, mientras buscamos en secreto una felicitación. Jesús les dice a sus discípulos que ellos no deben ser así. Siendo también discípulos, nosotros tenemos el reto de servir con dedicación, con humildad, en silencio, pensando sólo en el servicio. Si empezamos en nuestro ministerio con una postura de soberbia, como lo hicieron Santiago y Juan, seremos rebajados. By María Dolores Martínez, from Liturgia y Canción 2009, © 2009, OCP. All rights reserved.

El Asesor de Inmigración de Caridades Católicas En el Apostolado Hispano el jueves, 25 de octubre, de las 2:00 PM – 5:00 PM Curso Pre-Bautismal Domingo, 28 de octubre a la 1:30 PM en el Apostolado Hispano o a las 5 PM en la iglesia en East Hampton Favor de llevar la copia del acta de nacimiento del niño. Comunidad de Oración para Adultos y Familias Los martes a las 7:30 PM en la iglesia Horas de Oficina en el Apostolado Hispano Martes, miércoles, jueves y viernes de las 2-4 PM. Numero de teléfono del Apostolado 631-283-4379 Seguro de Salud para Niños La representante de Fidelis Care, Konny Tapias, estará en el Apostolado Hispano los miércoles de las 10 – 3. Requisitos para el Bautismo de un Niño Curso: Para bautizar a su hijo, es necesario que los padres y padrinos asistan al curso pre-bautismal. Traiga consigo el acto de nacimiento del niño. Padrinos: Debe escoger a los padrinos conscientes de los requisitos. Los padrinos tienen que haber recibido sus tres sacramentos de iniciación (Bautismo, Primera Comunión y confirmación) y deben poder comulgar, es decir no deben estar viviendo en unión libre o casados por civil nada más, El padrino (madrina) debe ser un(a) soltero(a) o debe ser casado por la iglesia. Padre Esteban: Cel: 631-375-1001; Fax: 631-287-0986 Apostolado Hispano: 631-283-4379

YOU CAN HELP HEAL YOUR MARRIAGE NOW!

“What is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?” —Mary Oliver If you are a single, Catholic woman, age 20-40, join us for an overnight retreat to deepen your:  

Universal call to holiness and service Understanding of the charism of Mercy

All are invited, especially women associated with Mercy ministries or the Sisters of Mercy. Spend time and prayer and reflection at Mercy Haven House, 104 Second Street, Brentwood, NY Starting at 6 PM on Friday,October 26, 2012 Until 7 PM on Saturday, October 27, 2012 Please register by contacting Sister Anne Kappler, RSM Or Sister Regina Ward, RSM [email protected]

ST. JOSEPH’S COLLEGE THE INSTITUTE FOR THE STUDY OF RELIGION IN COMMUNITY LIFE Presents An Evening of Jewish-Christian Dialogue in remembrance of Kristallnacht Tuesday, November 6, 2012 6 PM—Kosher buffet 7 PM—”You are the Future” musical/multimedia program in commemoration of the Holocaust by Naomi Miller 8 PM—Questions, discussion, sharing of stories 8:30 PM—Kaddish prayer led by Rabbi Joel Levinson of Temple Beth El McGann Conference Center - O’Connor Hall St. Joseph’s College, 155 West Roe Boulevard, Patchogue, NY For more information or to register please call 631-687-5100.

COMMUNITY AND DIOCESAN EVENTS

Do you feel alone? Are you frustrated or angry with each other? Do you argue? Have you just stopped talking to each other? Does talking about it only make it worse? Retrouvaille helps couples through difficult times in their marriages. This program has helped thousands of couples worldwide experiencing ALL TYPES of marital difficulties. For confidential information about the Retrouvaille Program, or to register for the upcoming weekend that begins on November 30th, at the Montfort Retreat House in Bay Shore, please call 1-800-470-2230 and you will be connected directly and confidentially to a couple from Long Island/Metro Retrouvaille who can help.